Closures
All things end eventually. In various ways: under our control, postponed for too long, outside of our control, too soon, too late, faster or slower. Closure is ideal but rare.
Saddening as it is, things end. In various ways: under our control, postponed for too long, outside of our control, too soon, too late, faster or slower.
Rarely happy or fulfilling, often frustrating but mostly bittersweet.
Some that you don't recover from and change you forever, at core.
Having closure is ideal but doesn't happen often. Even when we struggle and we somehow force it, soon thereafter, we realize that it truly wasn't.
If closure comes natural, effortless, then it's perfect, embrace it. If not, just let it go, forcing it is just noisy and wasteful. Move on.
The one positive aspect of endings is that they're an agent of change. For self and for others. So I guess that's some sort of abstract closure. Try to work with that and make the most of it.
